Frustrated Network Marketer–When The Hill Grows

Life is full of ups and downs, achievements and disappointments, successes and failures, joys and sadness.  In life there are no easy paths that lead to a perfect life where all is bliss and happiness all the time.  Along the path of life there are obstacles you will encounter and decisions to be made.  Frustrated network marketer – when the hill grows into a mountain what will you do?

There will be times when life delivers us a new challenge and the hill becomes a mountain.  It will be up to us to decide whether we accept the challenge or walk away.  How we handle a challenge will determine whether we will be successful or fail. The key is in your decision. The choice is yours alone. If a path of failure and disappointment is chosen there is no one to blame but you.

I know a network marketer who has been up to the challenge a number of years now.  You see the network marketing company she is with is not in her country but to her that does not matter.  Yes there are challenges but because it is what she wanted to do so she chose the path of success.  The company was a perfect fit for her so she accepted the challenges that she knew would be difficult but the road to success was in her view.  To her the decision that if she could not build her business in her country she would build it in countries that the network company was in was a decision she HAD to make.  She is successful now and in the near future she will have achieved her goals and be living her dreams.  She is an inspiration to those that know her and will be so to many many more.

Recently two network companies merged and with the merger both companies have gained expertise that they were lacking and in fact the new entity has increased in strength and expertise.  A move that was beneficial to both companies and the distributors.  New products introduced which means a learning experience for those that have not been introduced to these products before  and different selling techniques.  One of the unfortunate turns of events is that the company is not in all the countries that the merging company was in creating  new challenges for some of the distributors in those countries.  But for those that seek to achieve their dreams and goals they will find a way around or over the mountain that has obstructed their path.

How we deal with these mountains will determine whether we need to take a different path or continue on the path we are on and face the new challenge.  We need to remember that we are business people and need to make  decisions based on a business point of view and not on an emotional one.  Emotions tend to cloud your vision and give way to negative emotions if the situation does not follow the path we had set.  Stephen R. Covey in his book “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective people” came upon a revelation and quoted it in his book.  “There is a gap or space between stimuli and response”.  The gap is the time you will have to make a decision to respond to the stimuli and the outcome will depend upon your decision.  Depending what the decision is, you will need to use the right criteria to make your decision and in business basing your decision upon an emotional response will lead down the path of negativity when in reality the situation you are cast into may be the best situation for you.

Frustrated Network Marketer–When The Hill Grows into that mountain that seems too high what will you do?  What will you do in that gap between stimuli and response?  I can only encourage you to make your decision based upon the right criteria and what is best for you.

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Dave and Darlene Mills
Leadership With A Vision

“You cannot teach a man anything. You can only help him discover it within himself.” — Galileo

Frustrated Networker–Ghosts Are Holding Me Back (Part 4)

According to Napoleon Hill this next ghost is very popular amongst large numbers of the population.  So very many fear the ghost of “Ill Health” and the consequences it will present.  In “Frustrated Networker–Ghosts Are Holding Me Back (Part 4)” we will take an in depth look at this ghost.  We will examine our life to see if has taken hold of our us. And determine what prevents us from moving forwardimage in life to the point it becomes an excuse not to even make an effort.

What has been planted into our subconscious mind through the expressions of “without health you have nothing”, or “does anything else matter”? Truly it is merely a way out from taking responsibility for our own well being. 

In many cases it has become an unfounded reality for many people, because they are convinced there is something wrong with them,  they need to be excused for making an effort to better themselves. 

We know this is used as an excuse because we have seen those who have real health issues triumph over obstacles that even the healthy cannot conquer.

The origin of this fear has been propelled through heredity and those around us.  Our fear of ill health becomes more intense as we begin to analyse the possibility of death and what is beyond. 

To many death is a terrifying  experience because of the unknown. The subconscious mind begins to imagine the possibilities making it more real and terrifying even when unfounded.

Symptoms associated with this fear:

Hypochondria:  (medical term for imaginary  disease)  This symptom is self induced by talking about sickness and looking for it’s presents until a breakdown occurs. Cured only by replacing negative thoughts and thinking with positive thoughts and thinking.

Auto-Suggestion:  Planting into the subconscious mind that one is sick by continually dwelling upon the negative thought of disease.

Intemperance:  Instead of finding the cause one resorts to the use of alcohol and narcotics which gives the feeling of relief, only a temporary distraction.

Susceptibility:  Ones fear (negative thoughts) of illness, weakens the immune system opening the body to accepting disease.

Self-Coddling:  Pretending to be sick to avoid work imageand gaining sympathy.  The real reason can be to cover up laziness.

Exercising:  Using the fear as an excuse not to exercise which usually brings about overweight conditions and avoidance of public appearance.

This ghost is very real to some people and can do great amounts of damage to their lives.  When you discover this ghost within it is dispelled with positive thoughts and not worrying of the “What Ifs”.  Because they only lead to intensifying the fear.

If you want to spend time with a mastermind group using positive thought to overcome hurdles in their lives and turning defeat into triumph, I recommend you contact us and we will point you in the right direction so you can begin to walk the path of a better life, relationships and success.

Source: “Think And Grow Rich” – Napoleon Hill


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Dave and Darlene Mills
Leadership With A Vision

“You cannot teach a man anything. You can only help him discover it within himself.” — Galileo

Frustrated Network Marketer- How to Find Free Experienced MLM Mentoring and Support

Frustrated network marketers are in one of three categories, which, if you find yourself in one brings up an important question. Do you know how to find free experienced MLM mentoring and support?

  1. Frustrated with your current financial future (JOB) and looking for an opportunity 
  2. Already in an MLM opportunity and frustrated or
  3. Both, So Frustrated with the JOB and  lack of results in a current business entrepreneurial endeavour that they are looking for another opportunity.

If you find that you are a frustrated network marketer and have a huge commitment imageto running a business from home, there is great benefit from utilizing the services of an experienced MLM Mentor no matter what category you find you belong and no matter what company you are in now.

An experienced MLM Mentor can provide guidance throughout the entire process.

Listed below are 9 reasons that it is advantageous to use this free service.

1. The service is free to any struggling network marketer in any company.

2. The service is personal and confidential. (Conducted by phone or Skype communication)

3. The mentor guides the struggling network marketer through an entire educational process of learning what the industry is all about….understanding what a 5 Pillar company looks like. Far too many jump in head first into their work at home opportunity and never perform any checks and balances on the company owners or the product.  They never read their contract and they rarely know how the compensation plan REALLY works, or how hard they really have to work to make $5000.00 extra a month walk away residual income. 

4. A detailed WHY including an evaluation of the network marketers, interests, and goals will be complied in order to determine if your WHY will be strong enough to keep you in the business when obstacles and stumbling blocks get in the way of progress.

5. Education is provided on the various types of compensation plans, MLM conniving and manipulation, Ponzi schemes and scams. You will learn how to think not what to think. You will be able to spot scams before you join or recognize if you are in one currently. 

6. Investigation into the most suitable opportunities will be conducted if the struggling network marketer is looking for an opportunity that is in the 5 Pillar Category. Or the mentor will help build skills with the network marketer in order to help them with their current business opportunity of choice.

7. The network marketer will saves years of failure and frustration and time and money by by learning how to perform research on various opportunities with the advice of an experienced MLM mentor/coach.

8. The mentor/coach acts as a professional pointer, answering questions and referring the network marketer  to other resources as necessary, such as how to work social networking sites, how to write blogs, how to successful promote on YouTube and rejection free marketing techniques taught by Tom “Big Al” Schreiter.

9. Complications and confusion are virtually eliminated when an experienced MLM mentor/coach helps YOU with any network marketing business.

tomlydOnce you know what to avoid, you’ll want to know what to look for.  Read our article on how to find a Five Pillar Company.

Overall, an experienced MLM mentor will help you determine if network marketing and your MLM Company is right for you and if not, what 5 Pillar company you are most likely to succeed in.

Please do us a huge a favour and share, retweet & comment if you liked this post or feel it may help someone who is struggling. The key to success is how well you can create relationships of know, like and trust, as well as learn to market yourself  by communicating and connecting with  people on a daily basis.

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Dave and Darlene Mills
Leadership With A Vision

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Frustrated Network Marketer–The Wisdom Of Jim Rohn (Part 5)

Spring is the season of hope where there is a renewal of those things of nature to begin bringing forth new life.  So it can be for us too if we take advantage of this season.  Frustrated Network Marketer–The Wisdom Of Jim Rohn  move in the direction of explaining the spring season and what it can do to renew us if we choose.  He also explains what will happen if we choose to ignore the opportunity of the season and the regret that will follow.

Spring is the season for  action and taking advantage of opportunities.  Even as the farmer enters the fields with seed to plant we too must enter our field of life with seed to plant in anticipation of the upcoming harvest in the fall.  Spring is not the time to think about the possibilities of failure or the time to sit back and let the season slip by without making any effort to plant.

Spring is a season that is brief and will pass quickly so we must be vigilant not to be captivated by it beauty or the scent of the new flowers otherwise it will pass by without notice.  Spring will not tell you to plant or not to plant and it will not make you get up to take action.  Spring will continue along and as time does it will be gone and replace by the season of summer.

Spring is the season of opportunity, to make changes to move elsewhere, change jobs, to change your mind about relationships or something that has been on your mind.  It may be the time to take a course for improvement but don’t let it pass by while being idle or spending too much time remembering the past harsh season.  Spring will just continue to march on.

Spring is the time to enter the field and clear it of the rocks and weeds before you plant your seeds.  Clear the obstacles of discouraging words, worry, procrastination and doubt usually brought on by some of those around you and even from within.  Do not let others convince you to rest in the spring because it will be them who will ride the winter season in hunger and regret.

It is up to us to choose action in the spring as well the good in life and not the bad to us as an excuse for our inaction.  The work and effort that the spring provides will depend upon how much faith we put into the results we desire.  We need to remember that there are no guarantees for our success, but we will have a far better chance than those who spend no effort when the opportunity arises.

Spring promises that if we plant we will also harvest.  We must always be mindful of what we sow for if we sow lies we will receive lies and if we sow laziness the field will yield nothing of value.  Discipline will be a key ingredient for a successful harvest.  The difference between having the discipline and not having it is, “The pain of discipline weighs ounces while the pain of regret weighs tons.”

Each day we are given is like having a new season of spring.  Our dreams and the effort we put into the spring will provide the harvest of tomorrow.  If we neglect to take advantage of the spring our better life we are striving to achieve will be delayed.  Frustrated Network Marketer–The Wisdom Of Jim Rohn says that there is no better time to take advantage of the season of spring than “NOW.”

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Dave and Darlene Mills
Leadership With A Vision

We must all suffer one of two things: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret or disappointment. – Jim Rohn

Frustrated Network Marketer–The Wisdom Of Jim Rohn (Part 6)

The much awaited season of summer arrives and the anticipation of a warmer time.  It is not easy for the seed to push up through the soil, to gain what it needs, light and air from above, nor is success in business and life an easy task.  Frustrated Network Marketer–The Wisdom Of Jim Rohn goes a step further to let us know how to use the season of summer to our advantage.

In life summer is the season to protect against the work of bugs and the persistent weeds.  The creation of things of value are created in the season of spring but the season of summer is required for growth  and strength so they give the result of the harvest in the fall.  It is evident that all good things will come under attack but it is the testing ground to see who worthy and who is not.  Turning confidence into doubt, trust into suspicion, patience into impatience, effort into procrastination, worry and eventual defeat is the job of the weeds of life.  Sometimes we spend time contemplating how unfair it seems but that is for those who seek to get something for nothing and those who refuse to pay the price for battling the weeds and other obstacles in the way.  Do not spend your time chasing those birds that come to eat your planted seeds or the bugs threatening to eat all your harvest.  If you put enough effort into protecting and preserving your planted field there will not be enough birds and bugs to destroy all you have planted in the springtime.

We need to learn that there will be a continuous presence of negativity but it is this negativity that produce effort, faith and attitude.  Be thankful for adversity for it is in adversity that the human spirit grows and and the human character is formed.  Causes and consequences are part of our world today.  Our circumstances today, referred to as our harvest, is a result of seeds we had planted in the past.  Some of these seed were planted by parents, teachers and other people who’s wrong thinking were passed on to us in the past.  If we want our circumstances to change it will be necessary to change our opinions, thinking, attitudes, habits and possibly our location and even our choice of friends.  It is from within that we can change our circumstances of life by changing those things within that hold us back.

To blame circumstances or others for our present situation or continue to make excuses is foolish.  Only through large scale and self motivated effort to change the cause for our present circumstances is most important.  When there is unused time spend it on self development by planning better reading more and invest more in yourself.  Use your time for worthy projects, use your thoughts for worthy purpose, use your talents towards a worthy occupation and your affection towards a worthy recipient and keep the most respect for yourself.  What you see yourself as will determine your quality of life.  Do not perceive yourself to be more than you are or less but look to be capable as you are able and meant to be.  Do not become arrogant and rude because those type of people us it to cover their weaknesses.  Don`t spend your time on past regrets but spend it wisely planning for a better future.

Frustrated Network Marketer–The Wisdom Of Jim Rohn says you are like a seed made to spring forward and upward towards unlimited horizons and overcome all adversity in the process.  It is your destiny to tap to your talents to achieve all that of which you  believe yourself to be worthy…to love more, anticipate more, overcome more, plan more, attract more, and to enjoy more than you ever dreamed possible.  Such is the standard of life awaiting your mental decision and outstretched hand.  You are deserving – you are becoming – you shall succeed.

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Dave and Darlene Mills
Leadership With A Vision

“You must constantly ask yourself these questions: Who am I around? What are they doing to me? What have they got me reading? What have they got me saying? Where do they have me going? What do they have me thinking? And most important, what do they have me becoming? Then ask yourself the big question: Is that okay? Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.”-  Jim Rohn quote