Mentoring for Free-MLM Mentoring and Coaching

Network marketers are looking for answers to why they are not having the success they expected with their MLM at home business opportunity.

Who will they look to for answers?  They could choose free mentoring, coaching and imagetraining from professional industry leaders.  Or they could choose to pay “handsomely” for mentoring, coaching and training.   (One gentleman that we mentored was paying a coach $1500.00 for an half hour of his “professionals” time.  He also went on to tell us that the “professional” at times did not show up for appointments and still billed his credit card. Some coaches are reported to be charging up to  $20,000.00 for their services.)

The purpose of this article is NOT to bash those who are charging for their services.  My purpose is to explore why those seeking help WILL DO whatever is required if they pay someone for the advice, but can think of every excuse not to follow through on instructions or keep appointments when help is provided free of charge.

It seems that if someone is paying for a service that  there is more value placed on what is being paid for than that which is free. What a false misconception in my opinion.  There is some mental conclusion drawn that something which is bought is better than something for free. A huge lack of respect.

Plain and simple…there are so many  who are desperately searching for answers and looking for someone to help them figure out why they struggle and fail.  As professional marketers we are simply sick and image tired of frustrated network marketers NOT getting  quality help they seek and so desperately need to have success. Furthermore we don’t believe that anyone should have to pay for this training.  There are those who are successful in this industry who will provide help, mentoring and training…by the most successful leaders ever  under one umbrella.  We understand just exactly why there is failure and frustration.


  1. If someone is paying for mentoring/coaching and were asked to read their Policies and Procedures they WOULD do it.
  2. If someone  is paying for mentoring/coaching and were asked to take an in depth look at their compensation plan to analyze how it really pays them…they WOULD do it.
  3. A frustrated network marketer would NOT bat an eyeball at the above requests if they are paying someone to help them.

Oddly enough if you were paying a professional coach they would most likely never ask you to look at these documents.  Your policies and procedures is your  legally binding contract.  Your compensation plan is a more focused written look at the company presentation video.  You know the video you watched with all the hype.

So many can not grasp why we put so much emphasis on these two documents. They explain why you are not receiving a commission check even though you image have brought personal volume/sales to the company. If you are a person who is good at retailing your product and getting customer sales but are unable to meet your recruiting qualifications…you will not get paid.  You could be the best recruiter but can not bring 1000 bp or group points in sales…you didn’t meet the sales volume qualification…you don’t get a check. My friend it is about meeting ALL the qualifications…it is about jumping through all the hoops.

In the past week when speaking with people who asked for our assistance they wanted to dismiss our request to read articles that have been written by two of the top mentors and industry leaders.  Bob and Anna Bassett  who are  on the top 100 list of MLM mentors for 2010, compiled “gotcha” clauses in articles that should be HUGE RED FLAGS of warning if found in your Policies and Procedures. These “gotcha”   clauses spell disaster.  If they are in your Policies and Procedures, coupled with a poor compensation plan that is paying a measly 0.05% to perhaps 12% on Personal Volume ARE  reasons for much of the failure experienced by marketers. 

The cards are stacked against you with clauses that give the companies the legal right to imagestrip away distributors basic human rights. (see clause below…..  in which YOU GIVE UP YOUR RIGHTS, that even your government can not take away from you, but your network marketing company can and will…and do so legally because you agreed to each and every clause when you signed up to become a distributor. But also note that the COMPANY is NOT WILLING to give up any of their rights.) 

8.4 – Arbitration
If mediation is unsuccessful, any controversy or claim arising out of or relating to the Agreement, or the breach thereof, shall be settled by arbitration administered by the American Arbitration Association under its Commercial Arbitration Rules, and judgment on the award rendered by the arbitrator may be entered in any court having jurisdiction thereof. Associates waive all rights to trial by jury or to any court. All arbitration proceedings shall be held in Salt Lake City, Utah. The decision of the arbitrator shall be final and binding on the parties and may, if necessary, be reduced to a judgment in any court of competent jurisdiction. This agreement to arbitration shall survive any termination or expiration of the Agreement.
Notwithstanding the foregoing, nothing in these Policies and Procedures shall prevent [Company] from applying to and obtaining from any court having jurisdiction a writ of attachment, a temporary injunction, preliminary injunction, permanent injunction or other relief available to safeguard and protect [Company’s] interest prior to, during or following the filing of any arbitration or other proceeding or pending the rendition of a decision or award in connection with any arbitration or other proceeding.

Those who are struggling ask us why…and when we point out to them where they can find the answers to that question we are considered idiots of the industry.  Why?  Is it because we do not charge?  Perhaps. Is that fair? Not really.

Maybe they are not ready for the truth.   It hurts at times but your success does hinge on your contract and your compensation plan. If you need help understanding your Policies and Procedures as well as your compensation plan please contact us and we would be honoured to help you.  

Commit To Success Today
Dave and Darlene Mills
Leadership With A Vision

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4 thoughts on “Mentoring for Free-MLM Mentoring and Coaching

  1. Hey Double Ds!

    You make a great point here how many people will follow through with what their “paid” mentor tells them to do. However, are they really being guided to learn the very things that will actually teach them what they need to know to be successful.

    Thanks for sharing!

  2. Dave and Darlene, Excellent! I don’t know how many people I’ve talked with, who have no idea about their Polices & Producers nor how hard they have to work to earn an income from their companies. It’s like the blind leading the blind! Wonderful article! Keep up the good work you two.

  3. Dave & Darlene:

    EXCELLENT Article!

    As Jack Nicholson (Col. Jessup) yelled at Tom Cruise (young Lt. Kaffee) in the Movie ‘A Few Good Men’ “TRUTH! ,,,You want the TRUTH,,,YOU CAN”T Handle The Truth!!”

    I think this sums up where 95% of the Marketers are at in their Businesses some one sold them on the ‘Pie in The Sky’ concept that when they signed on the dotted line $$ would begin to fall out of the sky on them.

    Also Here’s a NOVEL Concept perhaps we Should (Heaven Forbid!!?) charge for MFF!!……..WHY!!? Because in my mind folks have been so ‘Brainwashed’ with the concept That you don’t get something for nothing!!…Even in the Church World
    where GRACE is FREE the average Christian gets so screwed up because they CAN NOT ACCEPT IT as FREE!!(No Strings attached)…..LOL but that is a discussion for another Day

    You see it has been my experience the past 6-7 years that folks generally let anything ‘Free’ they have downloaded or gotten just accumulate dust & mold…LOL They DO NOT VALUE IT!!!…Human Nature

    HOWEVER when we PAY for something we FEEL we have SKIN in The GAME as it were, that hard earned $$ we have put out Motivates us to show up or do the do so to speak….for awhile:-)

    SO AHA Moment Here……

    I will ask each new Prospect to Paypal me 500 Bucks to get started…LOL

    No Not really…LOL

  4. Thanks For your responses to this article. I appreciate you taking time Karen, Christy and Matt to leave a comment.

    Agree those who download things for FREE just let it pile up and never get any use out of things. They think they will get back to it…and never find the time or remember to go digging for it again.

    But my point is that even when they do read it and are connected with a mentor/coach or whatever you want to call us…there is no seriousness on their part…not at least equal to the seriousness of the mentor. Hmmmmmmmmm

    ~Darlene and Dave

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