$5000.00 you can earn before Christmas this year, flashy messages and huge income claims (illegal by the way) distort our rational thinking. It gets worse at this time of the year when we are dreaming of Christmas and what we would like to be able to provide to our family and friends. The sad thing is that we start to believe the confident and brash salespeople dressed in sheepskin.
These sales folk sound so credible. They keep feeding you what you want to hear; how much money you are going to make … and how many bonuses you will be paid … and how marvellous you are. The truth is you are a marvellous and wonderful person, you don’t’ believe it though because perhaps you are not accustomed to hearing this. This is however manipulation to get you to join the “deal”.
Here is an interesting fact … in the same time it has taken you to read the above two paragraphs, another person has given up their network marketing career! Because they were lied to. The promises made never came true.
Wholeheartedly they jump right in to the water without any thought to check out the company and the product or even the management team running the deal. There was never any forward planning or reading the policies and procedures of the company, which could have saved them years of failure and frustration. The network marketing water is murky, muddy and not shallow, it’s deep and full of sharks. Uneducated about this industry will leave you as bait for the sharks.
Take a deep breath, STOP! Just stop and put things into proper perspective. Network Marketing is not a sales business. It’s NOT! It is a relationship business.
If you want to be in sales, go find a sales job. Go work at Home Depot or Target.
If you want to LISTEN, if you want to TEACH and if you want to MENTOR … welcome to the real world of Network Marketing.
If you can help someone achieve their long term, so far; unachieved goals, and help them become successful , and help them own their life, then you have discovered what networking is all about and achieved more than most people will ever achieve. You will be creating a legacy for you.
I know full well that everyone on the internet is now proclaiming to be a “Mentor and a Coach”. But look a bit further before you decide who you may want to get help from. If you are being asked to pay for coaching and mentoring and receiving only 15 minutes of mentoring for your $125, now a one time free session, you may wish to reconsider. These “heavy hitters will toast you quicker than a pop tart!
There is an organization who are mentoring for hours at a time, days, weeks and years and never asking for a dime in return for the service. I know because I am still riding on the same free bus pass that I received two years ago.
Real Network Marketing is helping you discover the person you want to be. Maybe this sounds strange, but this step makes the difference between people who start something and then give up before starting something else … again with the same outcome. Sound familiar?
The most important person to satisfy is yourself. NOT the person who wants you to sign up into their deal.
Set out your own plans and goals and targets. Talk about your dreams. Write them down, touch them and feel them … repeat them.
Now you are equipped to give your heart and soul to other people who need help and advice, people who need guidance and a hand to hold.
What then is the result for you?
Now that you know what network marketing is and is not, the new you, while focussing on helping other people, will suddenly find that round pegs start to find the round holes, and the square pegs will start to find the square holes, and before you know it, you are applying your new character to your own self development and your own network marketing business. The power of “Paying it Forward”.
The system I am showing many people, has provided the ingredients and the recipe described above, and everybody knows that a tried and tested system will let you enjoy the tasty results of following the recipe word for word, line for line and ingredient for ingredient with no substitutes.
If you want more information or a one to one chat …. Please send me an email to the following address firstname.lastname@example.org
Remember to include your name, city where you live and your time zone.
Tell me what you are trying to achieve and I will respond as quickly as I can.
Together, people can make things happen, so let’s start now!
You cannot teach a man anything. You can only help him discover it within himself." — Galileo
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Leadership With A Vision